Earlier this month I read a piece on orgasms by the amazing Girl on the Net (GOTN) (If you haven’t read her blog it is a pure gold mine of sex and relationship content. Some of my erotica has been featured as audio porn on her site! I highly recommend you check her out!) I read…
Tag: Women’s sex lives
I’ve been thinking a lot about love lately. Being in Berlin with Stefan, having recently been in a break-up with Dex. Having more chances than usual to talk about what does polyamory and non-monogamy in general mean to me. It all comes down to love. But as I have learned on this journey- love means…
He’s not wrong. ********** Not very long ago, my monogamous partner of nine months and I broke up. There were so many reasons for this, the fact that he is monogamous and I am polyamorous was just one of many. The wild part is, we never fought, we hardly ever disagreed, and we freaking enjoyed…
Thank you. Thank you. My Polyam People, Boyfriend, Friends, Swingers, Polycule Members, and my Fellow Bloggers and Readers: Eight months ago I embarked on a new journey, another phase in the long stretch of time called “My Life.” It was an exciting but unexpected twist to the plot I had designed for myself. Thoroughly unexpected…
Just Keep Moving: I’ve been working on my new project so much, I haven’t had time to write. But one of the things I promised myself was that this year I would launch new projects but I would stay focused on writing… so today, I am writing. Projects My first big new project of the…
“We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.” – Tom Robbins I am still reeling from my breakup, but I still have plenty of hope and expectation of love. I always say “love is worth the risk,” and I mean it. I always have. Even when I know it…
It gets worse before it gets better: I was really determined at first to blog every day, but yesterday, I really needed the day off. I spent most of the morning ugly crying and even today in a quiet moment at the hair salon, I could have started crying again. Now that I am officially…
Vulnerable and Insecure: So- I tweeted earlier that I hadn’t written this post yet (I have been trying to be one day ahead but I was PRETTY hungover yesterday and not really able to get a post together…) but I was feeling vulnerable and insecure today, and I knew I really should talk about it,…
Random Ramblings: So, you know that lull in the conversation? You’ve been chatting with your friend over coffee for a bit, but now you either need refills, or maybe it’s time to go, but you still kind of want to hang out and enjoy their company and keep chatting? Maybe that’s where we are now….
I originally thought I was going to want to talk about breaking up with Said in a few of these posts. We broke up the day after Christmas, after some lengthy back and forth conversations Christmas night and into the next day. I had a few really emotional days after that, and even last night…