Earlier this month I read a piece on orgasms by the amazing Girl on the Net (GOTN) (If you haven’t read her blog it is a pure gold mine of sex and relationship content. Some of my erotica has been featured as audio porn on her site! I highly recommend you check her out!) I read…
Tag: intimacy
I love my friends, I really do. But try as they might, they really struggled at first to understand my penchant for polyamory. More specifically they didn’t understand my relationships. I remember one time, I was sitting outside at a café, sipping a frothy cappuccino in the sunlight with one of my girlfriends, and gushing…
[embedyt] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bPJSsAr2iu0[/embedyt] (This song is my theme song on my Tinder profile. No one can say I didn’t warn them!) ********** If you know me, you know I am ‘famous’ for saying, “Love is worth the risk.” I especially love the beginning, that NRE (New Relationship Energy) is addicting and something that I can enjoy…
When I saw this tweet from the darling and fellow Polyam Violet Fawkes, I knew I really did have to finally write this post. *********** As many of you know, I am in a relationship with two men who live in Germany. (I just realized it’s almost time to do another quarterly post about the…
And by photos of me, I mean photos of me ‘in flagrante delicato.’ Photos of us, in bed together. Ok, photos of me. My body. Naked. Very vulnerable. When I started getting to know my boyfriend Benjamin, he and his wife Mia were happy to share sexy photos with me. They agreed I could share…
I know, weird title, but stick with me here. Sometime over the past two and a half years we have been seeing each other, I have started to refer to him as a location. I tell my friends: “I’ll go to Stefan tonight.” “I went to Stefan this week.” “Well, let’s see if I’m going…
People think that intimacy is about sex. But intimacy is about truth. When you realize that you can tell someone your truth, when you can show yourself to them, when you stand in front of them and their response is “You’re safe with me.” -that’s intimacy. -Taylor Jenkins Reid I saw this quote on a…